A Phobia is an intense dread of a certain situation or an object.
What to look for
Phobias are anxiety disorders. Three main types of phobias exist:
Specific phobias - a fear of an individual object or situation
Social phobia - fear of social situations in which you may be scrutinised
Agoraphobia - fear of being away from home
If you feel compelled to avoid an object or situation in which you feel threatened or fearful you may have a phobia. You may understand that you fear is irrational and extreme but you cant stop feeling this way and the pressure of knowing this may make you more anxious.
The most common type of phobia from the list above are specific phobias. They can include such objects or situations as parties, school, dentists, driving, water, flying, snakes, fat, age, high places, and enclosed spaces. Even though a phobic person will acknowledge that their fear is extreme, this knowledge does not lessen their fear. It is usually not the object or the situation that they are fearful of, it is the possible outcome.
A person with agoraphobia can be fearful of three main things
fear of leaving home,
of being alone, and
of being in a situation where one cannot suddenly leave or obtain help.
A person with social phobia has a fear is of being humiliated, examined or condemned in public. They avoid public speaking, parties, and any social event. Possible physical side effects may be blushing, palpitations, sweating, tremors, stuttering, or faintness. A person whose phobia is left untreated may become withdrawn, depressed, and socially incapacitated.
Some specific phobias can be explained by early traumatic events, but the majority have no obvious cause. Most are thought to be produced when an underlying fear is displaced onto an unrelated object.
Agoraphobia may develop in response to repeated panic attacks. Social phobia may develop in childhood, but the cause is unknown.
Depending on the severity of the persons phobia, the condition can usually be treated so that the person can eventually be able to live normally and be able to control their fears.
For specific phobias, treatment by systematic desensitisation therapy is highly successful. This usually happens step by step and in the safety of a known and safe place. The person will be able to eventually accept the fearful object or situation if exposed to it gradually.
Treating social phobia usually involves slow exposure to social situations. The person may become actively involved in role playing and rehearse their actions and reactions. Individuals are taught to lower their anxiety and are encouraged to be less self-critical.
The best treatment for agoraphobia is to gradually move out into the places and situations that trigger anxiety. It must occur slowly and gradually and in the company of a professional therapist or a trusted friend. The person will gradually reduce their anxiety upon being exposed to triggers.
Phobias are difficult to treat by yourself. Always seek the help of a professional person.
Aromatherapy - Studies have shown that essential oil of lavender (Lavandula officinalis) can bring relief from anxiety. A popular blend is 2 drops each of lavender and bergamot, 1 drop of petitgrain and 2 drops of ylang ylang put into a warm bath or vaporised in a burner. You can also put the blend of oils onto a handkerchief and use while you are out.Studies have shown that essential oil of lavender (Lavandula officinalis) can bring relief from anxiety. A popular blend is 2 drops each of lavender and bergamot, 1 drop of petitgrain and 2 drops of ylang ylang put into a warm bath or vaporised in a burner. You can also put the blend of oils onto a handkerchief and use while you are out.
Herbal Therapies - Valerian (Valeriana officinalis) tea or capsules may ease anxiety. Do not use this herb for long periods of time, as it may become addictive in certain individuals. Also use under Professional supervision. Valerian (Valeriana officinalis) tea or capsules may ease anxiety. Do not use this herb for long periods of time, as it may become addictive in certain individuals. Also use under Professional supervision.
Relaxation - Numerous relaxation techniques, including yoga and meditation, can help reduce the anxiety that surrounds phobias. Numerous relaxation techniques, including yoga and meditation, can help reduce the anxiety that surrounds phobias.
By taking one small step at a time, most phobic people can eliminate their fears.
Feel free to ask for questions about a feared object or situation: Is it safe? Will it hurt me?
Practice shifting your thoughts in a positive direction.
Do regular deep breathing and relaxation exercises, especially when anxiety starts to rise.
Regular exercise helps burn up adrenaline, which accompanies panic attacks.
Avoid alcohol, barbiturates, and anti-anxiety drugs whenever possible. Also avoid caffeine.
When to seek further professional advice
you have a phobia that interferes with a normal social or working life.